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SEXISM 2024

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Better to wait at the gate?

The temptation is to lift the latch and enter.

It is, after all, a public space.

But women know guard dogs lie in wait

on the other side of the gate.

Thus, carefully, we negotiate

each step along the way,

fearful of unleashed dogs nipping at our heels,

ready to tear apart our bodies and our dreams.

And, when they hear our screams

they say, “I had no idea.”

Plausible deniability is their way.

Men, and women too weak to lift latches, 

deny that sexism is at play.

They laugh and joke at our fright.

Then simply go on their way,

as they believe it is their sole right.

Anyone who is not Christian.

Anyone who is not white.

Anyone who would lift latches

and move beyond the gate;

only does so, when they can no longer wait

for justice and progress, 

which lie beyond the gate,

and the only place 

where their suffering can abate.

Are those who lift latches “the enemy within”?

Lift latches in the safest space.

Then, keep the gates open.

It is not yet too late!

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LAMENTATION

Little girl, bambina,

treasure of daddy’s heart.

A girl-child set gracefully apart

from the boys running free beyond the yard.

Little girl, bambina,

kneeling in the pew.

A girl-child quietly humming the chorus

while the boys sing free up in the choir loft.

Little girl, bambina

patiently waiting for adulthood

a girl-child home obeying family rules

while the boys explore the world.

Little girl, bambina

now grown and flown from home

no longer a mere girl-child

but an America woman fully grown.

How blessed to be an American woman;

Though Italian, and Catholic grown.

Now free to run alongside the  boys.

The world is yours to own.

Little girl, bambina

delighted to be free

and equal to any boy or man.

That is what it means to be an American.

Little girl, bambina,

no treasure now are you aware.

A woman without freedom nor equality,

is your burden, once more, to bear.

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ODE TO MY BROTHERS

Three brothers had I by my side.

Clothed in Sicilian charm

and girded by American pride

they showed up unexpectedly

to protect and defend their sister.

I  valued their strength and their lift.

I lifted weights by their side.

Still they believed 

they were more fit than I,

who won ever race

on ballerina legs in full stride.

All went well 

unless I tried to tell 

them what to do or how.

Respect was a two-way street;

except, there were only a few 

I was free to pursue.

So, I disobeyed brothers’ orders

and crossed all the borders

they tried to enforce.

Still, they showed up unexpectedly

at every movie and dance 

where young men might be

looking for a chance

to cajole and control a young lady.

I discovered, that unlike loving brothers such as mine,

men could be cruel and threatening

to women who refused

to stay in their place.

I am a sister much blessed

by noogies and teasing

that seem relentless.

I am a sister well-loved,

a sister well-protected,

and always respected.

What do women want?

We want it all.

Just like men do.

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