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PASSIONATE WOMEN

“Enjoy it, while you can!”

never makes sense

to young ones whose only goal

is to get old enough to let life unfold

on their own.

Until, they are old enough to love.

Then, as the old ladies foretold,

“Enjoy it, while you can!”

I see those women still.

Still young.Still passion filled.

Still yearning for more, and amore.

They gathered for morning coffee

on the screened-in porch.

Pulling me within

by their passion, a torch

to light my way

to womanhood, day by day.

They were all related

by marriage and by blood,

or paesans from villages abroad.

They formed a sisterhood

from marriage to widowhood.

They aged, yet, their passions still raged

at husbands whose passions had been spent

on youthful challenges and endeavors

they embraced as leavers

to lift their families higher

than an immigrant could aspire.

Worn out before their time.

Passions worn too thin

to please their wives.

“Enjoy it, while you can!”

Ah! Now, I am finally

old enough to understand.

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LETTER TO THE YOUNG AMONG US

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Rain has ceased her assault for now,

broken records shattered faith 

in weather patterns, and how!

Streets flooded and gardens submerged.

Waves above plants crested and surged.

Climate change shows the fruitless folly

of distracted senses unable to observe

nothing that matters more

then destructive weather battering the door.

Mother Nature refuses to give up on us,

On Earth’s survival and our own.

She bellows and blows

to drive her message home.

The nihilism of our young is no surprise

as they watch all they knew of truth and honor die.

The hopefulness of youth also decries

the callow acceptance of loss

by ancient leaders who fail to count the cost

as their years surmount their reason

in their final season.

Time to allow youth its voice

and watch them lead us forward

to a better choice.

Allow youth to set aside 

the greedy old clinging to their wealth;

as if wealth, not life, is the real prize.

Stay strong young sons and daughters.

These old bones are counting on you

to laugh and love, to plant and grow

a world much better than we have left behind.

I salute you and offer you

all the wisdom you can unwind

from old codgers 

with weak limbs, but loving minds.

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HAIKU

Passion breaks apart

fired in ovens too hot.

Cool love lasts longer.

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LETTING GO

Carrying away the day in buckets of lost dreams

is a waste of good time and makes 

the compost pile scream.

Waiting in the wings are characters

preparing the next act with useless tact.

Who knows what adventures lie ahead for those

willing to drop the text and pretext of prose

to bring the old play to a close?

For those starting the next chapter

with brave and honest laughter

in a new script meant to convey

a future of happy possibilities,

despite life’s fragilities, all is good.

Right now. This time.This day.

Stand and bow to applause

just as you should.

Now, get off the stage and live.

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FADING DAFFODILS

The daffodils and I are fading.

Our tulip friends who bloomed later not far behind.

The  bright colors once so gaily waving

in gentle sun now unwind

the cord which seemed to hold back

warmer days and nights; the cord which holds back time.

Clouds continue to place a sack

over Sun’s greater insights of reason and rhyme,

sleeping still too many hours

to bring the garden fully back

to life.

What is it in the soul that yearns

for Spring in Winter and Summer in Spring?

How to live in the moment I’ve yet to learn.

Around and around the seasons I go,

seeking to learn just one more thing.

When I shall stop nobody knows.

Until then I shall dance and sing

among the flowers which in my garden grow.

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AGING CHILDREN ALL

Healthy minds come in all kinds.

The butcher, the baker, the candle stick maker

all row together or sink below the sea at best, 

or wander earth’s oceans without rest.

Too much anxiety, too little propensity

to throw out life preservers for everyone,

it is clear, makes enemies where there are none.

Children’s rhymes are true for all times.

Those who think they have left behind

childhood are out of their minds.

Forever childlike is my goal . 

It is the only way to assure I stay whole.

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AGING OUT OF PLACE

Years weigh down the lane I travel.

The dust has settled, as have I.

Even the air seems dense and pale,

too easy to inhale or exhale.

My pace must slow,

each foot placed just so.

Should I fall the earth would feel

hard as glass.

We both would shatter.

Eyelids weighted by experience

of both grief and joy dim the view ahead

of this road I know

must end, sooner than I’d wager,

anyone would hope.

It grows quieter here.

My ears have dried with my tears

remembering  long lost friends and family.

Crystals form within bright as stars

then shift from their moorings

as I walk, daring me to fall and jar

the brittleness of each new morning.

So, I slow. But still, I go.

Where? None of us really know.

which makes this journey

an adventure beyond this space,

an exploration of love and grace.

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BABY BOOMERS, BOOM!

Don’t forsake the power of Baby Boomers.

Many of us are Late Bloomers.

A few of us marched and demonstrated

for Civil Rights, and anti-war.

Post-war babies, we may be 

the fiercest fighters for Democracy.

And yet, too many of us are immature

in understanding the force 

needed to correct a nation’s course.

This is not the time to play and pretend,

a babes are wont to do,

that Democray can never end.

No, being a baby will not do. 

We need to bellow and we need to boom.

Our strength is waning it is true.
We can no longer do what we could before.

The strength in arms and legs wanes.

The strength in minds and hearts remains.

And, our voices raised together are strong

enough sing freedom’s song.

Baby Boomers, sing out loud, sing out strong.

Our fathers soldiered on across the seas.

We must soldier on at home to defend Democracy.

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ONLY A MOMENT

Children count the years in minutes.

Teenagers live in the moment.

Middle-agers count the years in decades.

and the aging count the minutes in a year.

Time is of no real moment until the final one.

Counting time bears momentum

only if we overthrow its end.

Like plants dormant in winter soil

we push against the darkest hours

not counting time but striving upward

into the light where we can grow.

Never say you are getting old.

Say, instead you are growing older.

Then stop the watch. Stop the calendar.

This is the only moment that counts.

Live this moment until its end.

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AGING DREAMS

There were no stairs to climb

between four floors explored

in dreams repeated through the night.

Questions roamed with me and more,

excited by the unexpected chance

to replace an old dwelling with new,

under reconstruction which winds blew

through openings in walls.

The misplaced furnace unable to heat

such a large space blocked a place

to park a car. No garage. Its saving grace

was its place on a city street

where I could walk amid constant activity,

unlike the sedate pace of my current home.

The mortgage would be the same

I was assured. No years added

to its satisfaction date.

Did I want this new home built on the old?

Or this new body if Jung is to be believed?

Indecision and insistent queries gave me pause.

Better to draw an old body into new?

Or stay the course more ancient but more safe?

A question for the ages?

Or simply for the aging?

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