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HAIKU

Passion breaks apart

fired in ovens too hot.

Cool love lasts longer.

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WORDS

Are words without heart more marketing than art?

Is there any assurety my words sit on your lips

with the same joy they sit on mine?

I count on words to keep us all alive.

Or is it false security to believe in such vanity?

I sit quietly, in meek wonder at the power of words

to turn a cheek against a blow, 

or use a laugh to turn aside sorrow.

As I await inspiration words flow.

I wonder how this can be so.

What is life but waiting to know?

What is hope but a quickening of spirit?

What is faith but a breath in and breath out?

What is love but accepting whatever comes about?

Has life any purpose or is it merely aspiration?

Is life simply our imagination?

Without imagination can we survive?

Can any nation?

I wait. 

I breathe.

I accept.

I imagine.

I survive.

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HOLY COMMUNION

Hope is a gift we can only give ourselves 

when we have faith in ourselves

which requires we love ourselves.

Believing in ourselves

allows us to believe in others.

We only know this by the gift of love

others give us.

The hopeless cannot have faith

until they love themselves.

They foment insurrection

to make a dark connection

with other lost souls.

Loving the faithless,

those who have lost faith

with their own humanity,

with their own community

is perhaps our own best hope

for unity.

Perhaps love is the more difficult gift,

the more difficult to find, 

the more difficult to hold fast.

Perhaps we are not meant to hold onto love

to make it last; 

but to let it go and find its way,

to those whose need is greater than our own,

that we may create better days.

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LOVING HARD

Today is my Mother’s birthday. If she had lived beyond the age of 70 she would be 98 years old today. She could not survive lung cancer. she is no longer walking the earth but she yet lives in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved her, who still love her. 

Angela Abbruzzi (Abbruzzese)Annarino was not always easy to love. She was, after all, a mother of four children, equally difficult to love. Love is not easy. Love is demanding…when done right. Mom did it right. 

She never lost sight of her own humanity and ours. She demanded we become the best we could be, no matter the cost to our pride and dignity. She would often discipline us openly before guests, bystanders, family and friends. When this was thrown in her face by her recalcitrant daughter she would reply, “ I don’t care if the president of the United States or Jesus Himself were standing here while I discipline you. You will be behave yourself.” Dad, if he were around would remind us “ everyone puts his pants on one leg at a time.” My parents did not disrespect those “above” us. They just did not believe anyone was more important than anyone else. Whatever the audience, our behavior was openly challenged; our failures disclosed.

They loved us so hard. They made it hard not to be our best. We often failed Mom’s expectations. We never lost her love. What a great lesson she taught us. Be direct. Be truthful. Be real. Be transparent. Try hard. Get up after you fail. Try again. You are loved. Keep trying.You are no better than anyone else. Nor is anyone else better than you. Keep trying no matter who is watching. No matter what vulnerability anyone else sees in you. No matter what anyone else thinks of you. Keep trying. The only way we could fail was to not try. 

Loving hard builds strong children. High expectations builds confidence in the realistically foreseeable, and repeatedly expected, failures of childhood. Mom’s expectations never lessened, so we had to keep trying. I am so very grateful to my Mother for demanding so much from us. She also taught me to demand more from others. To expect the best from others. To acknowledge their humanity, “warts and all”, while loving them and supporting them to be the best they could be. And, to never expect more of anyone else than I expected of myself. She taught me to love hard.

Happy Birthday, Mom. Grazie! I love you, “warts and all”.

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LOVE LETTER TO UKRAINE

Love with every fiber of your being.

Love gives life and death meaning.

Love keeps vision clear.

Love is stronger than fear.

Love embraces positivity.

Love destroys negativity.

Love crosses every border.

Love creates world order.

Love brings unity.

Love creates community.

I believe in love, that is true.

I believe in you.

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Three Bows to Untie

There are three bows to be untied

if peace is to abide.

Untie the bow of fear

and open the package of hope.

Untie the bow of greed

and open the package of faith.

Untie the bow of hate

and open the package of love.

Pretend it is Christmas Day

and celebrate

Peace to all of good will,

If you will.

Pretend it is your birthday

and free yourself

Of the past.

When all the bows are untied

Peace will abide.

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Reflection on the Lonely Artist


The lonely artist is not a fiction but a prediction


of the lonely lover


awaiting to discover


who we are.


I do not know you, do I ?

How could I when I do not yet know myself?


I see you. I hear you.


You are there.


In your eyes I see myself


as a reflection,

with it inherent loss of my full energy


and being, lost in your gaze.

This leaves me lost and dazed.


All you give me is a reflection of myself.

It is not enough.


It lacks your energy. Your being

you keep for yourself,


leaving me alone, grasping air.


Perhaps this is why we choose


to love only those who appear


most like our selves.


Disenchanted when all we are


able to embrace

is the reflected self.


Give me your true self.


Give me your art


not something set apart,

but different from me.


This is the value of diversity.


This love beyond self


only comes when we see

more than our own reflection,


are given new energy,


the energy of you.


Fear keeps us apart.


We fear knowing who we are.


We fear knowing who you are.

Fearing if we love you,


we will only see

our lessened selves.

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Busy Days

Busy days boost the sun

however faint his gaze.

No time to moan

his wandering ways

over the banks of snow.

Sun warms the heart

and soothes the soul

even when he strays

too far south

to take the time

to light our way.

Busy days ease our wait

for sun’s return

To grace us with his kiss

and hold our heart in his.

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BLOGGERS

Grief is palpable

hearts made of soft wool;

natural,

real,

felted by tears,

made stronger,

tightening bonds

across miles

circumventing the globe.

Likes on the blog

string together the yarns

of hearts attuned.

We touch.

We share.

We still care

enough to like.

Enough to tell each other

You are heard.

You are loved.

You are heart

of my heart.

We are in this

together.

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HELPERS

Caring need not mean

carrying another’s burden;

nor lifting a load too heavy

to bear alone,

yet often does.

There is a danger of injury

in shifting loads.

Better to brace

weakened strength

and leave the load in place.

Better to widen the stance

on planted feet

solidly grounded

while arms embrace.

Better to dance together.

this, too, lightens a load

with far more grace

and less harm.

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